Do you have a plan that you like and looks like it will work? Great, time to start shopping. I’ve mentioned some shopping tips earlier in this article, but we’ll repeat them just in case. Start with neutral, totally basic stuff. Only get things that go with other things you already own. Stick to your colors, fits, style and plan. I recommend uploading your plan and palette to your phone so you have it handy whenever you’re browsing the shops. I also recommend saving things from e-shops in one place, comparing them to things in your plan to see if they fit stylistically, and possibly taking time to think before you buy something. I also recommend e-shops that have easy free returns. My strategy is to order multiple pieces at once and return most of them again after trying them on.
It’s also a good idea to go through your wardrobe before you make your first purchases and donate or, if you can’t do otherwise, throw out anything that isn’t in your colors and style. If you’ve completely changed colors, of course wait until you have enough new stuff to take this step.
The sooner you limit yourself to wearing only things in your colors and style, the better. If you already have a few appropriate items in your closet, add the necessary pieces from your plan and wear your style every day, as much as possible. That way you’ll quickly find out what works for you and what doesn’t, before you spend too much money on things that may not work for you in the end. Mistakes are inevitable in the beginning, you just need to learn from them. For example, I’ve found over time that I don’t like long cardigans, anything too tight under the arms (especially short sleeve shirts), polyester in the summer, etc. I’ve already had to donate a few new items from my closet because of this.
Shopping is also a good source of information in itself. You’ll soon find that something looks good on paper (in the plan) but not on you. At the same time, you’ll also learn to more accurately guess what will fit you in reality. I’d also like to add that it’s ideal to try new things at home, to everything you already own. Again, an outfit may look good on paper and not so much in reality. Maybe the blouse is too loose and doesn’t look good tucked into the skirt. You don’t know that in advance. And if even after trying something on you’re hesitant to keep it or return it, give yourself a few days to think about it, and even then, if you don’t know, return it. I’ve usually ended up getting rid of things I wasn’t sure about to begin with and should have returned.
It’s also often worth trying something new, something you don’t think will fit. Or that it’s not quite right. Especially if you have a free return option. A few of my favorite pieces looked pretty questionable in the photo and now I’m glad I tried them on. Conversely, a lot of the great stuff in the photo disappointed me. So I’ll allow myself to take a bit of a risk when ordering and trying things on, but once it comes down to whether to keep the item or buy it, the pickiness is spot on.
Final tip: Start with cheaper items and once you’re sure you love something, buy a similar piece in a higher quality, pricier option.
For example, a decent wool coat, cashmere sweater, silk blouse, leather shoes, ball gown (if you go to balls regularly), tailored suit for men, etc. Such things, if you get them in the right color and fit, will last for years and are worth the price. So once you’re sure you know what you need, go for it. You can also pay extra for a favorite brand, eco-friendly or fair trade manufacturing, … and you can often find decent pieces in thrift stores and outlets, but you probably already know that. Unfortunately, there’s the risk that the item won’t fit and you won’t return it, and resale eats up a lot of energy for a few pennies, which is why I don’t use things like Facebook marketplace that often.
So how do you go about successful shopping? Stick to your colors, fits and plan. Be bold and try things on, and judge strictly whether to keep something. Take the time to find out what really fits and suits you before you spend too much money. And try to enjoy it anyway, that’s what it’s all about in the end – having a cool wardrobe that makes you happy.